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'Smile'...It's Free

I was on my scooter, waiting for the red light to turn green. My mind was arguing on some topic where some part of me supported the argument and the other part countered it. I was into deep thinking.There were a father and his daughter too, waiting for the signal to turn green. The girl might have been around 7-8 years of age. When my eyes met hers she gave me a sweet smile, and suddenly my thinking went on the stop. Her cute little face with that smile got my attention, I smiled back. The signal turned green, they went on their route, I went on mine. But something that stayed on my face was that smile I gave her. The smile carried on my face the whole day. That one little gesture by the girl made my day and it was an amazing thing to experience. We come across so many people in our day, most of them strangers, fighting fights we never will know about. The least we can do is give them a smile. Your one small gesture can make a lot of difference. And trust me it feels great. Smiling...

What Makes A Diffrence?

Today while reading the newspaper, I came up with some questions & thoughts and I feel it's worth sharing.
We all the have the exact same body type as that of the richest man on earth might have. He too has two legs,hands,eyes, ears etc. Then how is he different from the rest?
What makes him the richest man? 
How are we different from each other, what makes me Punit? and what makes you...you?
Well, it's a an interesting question, isn't it?

The only difference that I can see here is the MINDSET. We all have our own mindsets, don't we?
It's not only the bank balance that makes him the richest man, but his mindset defines him. His thinking process, his habits, his attitude towards the problems in his life, these qualities make him different from us.

The intent for writing this article is that we take some time out of our busy lives for ourselves. And to analyse and understand what changes we can bring in order to make a difference in our lives. If we could align our mindsets with that of the most successful people then there is nothing that can't be achieved.

 How We Think : Our Thoughts are the food we feed to our minds, so the thoughts that run in our minds are the ones that will decide our actions. Therefore it is really important that we build ourselves such that we wake up with excitement and go to bed with satisfaction. Filling our mind with gratitude, love, kindness and positive thoughts will eventually align our thinking process towards productivity and new ideas. Only the correction of our thoughts from complaining to acceptance, from anger to calmness and taking disappointments as learning lessons will soon transform us into completely new beings.

Our thoughts should :
  1. Have Gratitude.
  2.  Be filled with Love & Kindness. 
  3.  Have Self-Belief.
  4. Should Have Clarity & Direction.
  5.  Have Acceptance to Failures.
  6.  Be Aligned to our Goals.
  7. Lead Us to New Ideas.
Our Daily Habits :  Habits are so powerful that it can make or break our lives. 
Our habits have a really great impact on our thinking process.The kind of habits we have will lead to to kind of thoughts we get. If we can inculcate some of these habits than there is no doubt that we can change our lives entirely.
  1. Being early to bed and early to rise is really a game changer.
  2. Reduction of time from smart-phones and social life to self-care habits like fitness, reading, and spending time with family.
  3. Playing a sport will keep the child in you alive.
  4. Our eating habits are really effective for our physical as well as our mental health.
  5. Choosing our friends.This might not seem like a habit, but is an important aspect when it comes to our daily lives.
All of this qualities if corrected can lead us the great lives ahead. And please believe that it is never too late to change. If at all after reading this you feel the need to make changes in your life, Congratulations! First step towards any change is the willingness to bring the change. And now promise me this wont be another motivational article that you read,get motivated and then let it fade away. Good Luck!


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